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Four Stages of Mantra Meditation: Naam Simran Practice Guide

Nanak Naam
Nanak Naam
Jun 11, 2019
12 min read

Naam Simran (mantra meditation) uses the combined power of sound and word to redirect the mind from external distraction toward internal awareness. Rather than suppressing thought, the practice works by giving the mind something to anchor to—the vibration and meaning of sacred words like "Waheguru." The Guru provides specific techniques: listening to your own voice, understanding the emotional meaning of the mantra, and using praise to dissolve the ego's sense of separation. Satpal Singh outlines why meditation feels hard (the mind resists inward focus), what we are actually trying to achieve (recognizing the divine nature already within), and how to move through the stages of practice without forcing.

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Why Does the Mind Resist Sitting in Silence?

One of the first obstacles in Naam Simran is not that your mind is unusually busy—it is that you finally become aware of how busy your mind actually is. When you sit down to meditate, even for a few minutes, the mind quickly becomes distracted. Many practitioners feel discouraged because they assume this means they cannot meditate. The reality is different: the practice itself reveals the constant chatter that usually goes unnoticed because we are absorbed in external activity.

Satpal Singh draws a direct comparison. When you watch television or a movie, your mind stays focused for hours without complaint. You do not feel your body or notice distracting thoughts. Yet when you sit down to listen to Kirtan (devotional singing) or practice Naam, within three or four minutes the mind may create a sense of sleepiness or boredom. The mind will actually try to shut down. This is not a sign of failure in meditation; it is a sign that your mind is habituated to external stimulation and resists the inward turn.

Similarly, notice how your mind behaves in nature. If you stand before a mountain, a lake, or a star-filled night sky, the mind becomes still on its own. You do not compare the stars to anything else; you simply observe. There is no internal commentary. This reveals a crucial principle: the mind does not lack the capacity for stillness. Instead, the mind needs something specific to hold its attention. Without an anchor, it defaults to restlessness or seeks external input.

What Does the Guru Actually Give Us in Naam?

The Guru provides Naam—mantra—as a technology of attention. It is not arbitrary sound or thought. Naam is the deliberate use of sound combined with wisdom, the understanding of the word's meaning.

This is why the Guru does not simply instruct you to visualize a photo of the Guru or hold a mental image. The instruction is specific: listen to the sound of the Shabad itself. Sound is primary. When you sit in Naam Simran, you are listening to the vibration of your own voice as you repeat the mantra. Simultaneously, you are contemplating the meaning encoded in that sound. Keertan (Sikh devotional music) itself is composed in raag—a sophisticated system of sound—precisely because the Guru understood that certain frequencies carry specific states of consciousness.

The mantra given in Gurmat is typically "Waheguru," which translates as "Wonderful Lord" or, more expansively, as the celebration of that which encompasses all existence. When you say "Waheguru," you are not simply producing a sound. You are listening to its vibration, understanding that "God is everywhere," and evoking the emotional resonance of awe and recognition that the word carries. This integration of sound, word, and feeling is what makes Naam meditation distinct from passive listening to music or empty repetition.

Other mantras are also given in Gurbani: "Har Har" (Lord, Lord) is another common anchor. Satpal Singh recommends experimenting with the mantra that resonates with you, but understanding that each word carries a specific vibration and wisdom that the Guru has placed there intentionally.

What Are We Actually Trying to Achieve in Naam Simran?

The goal of Naam meditation is not to empty the mind or achieve a blank state. Rather, Gurmat meditation is designed to turn the mind from outward focus to inward recognition. Typically, the mind is always looking outward—thinking about work, relationships, responsibilities, external circumstances. It is oriented toward the world outside the self.

Because of this habitual outward orientation, practitioners often make a critical mistake: they imagine God as existing outside themselves, somewhere external, and they believe Naam is a form of calling or petition directed toward that distant deity. This creates a fundamental misunderstanding of the practice. Naam is not God calling; it is not summoning an external force.

Instead, Naam is the technique of going within yourself and recognizing that which is already the very base of your being. The Guru teaches that the divine is not separate from you—it is the nature of what you are. When you practice Naam, you are not trying to attract something from outside. You are using sound and word to penetrate the layers of mental habit and ego that obscure the awareness of your own true nature.

This is a crucial shift in understanding. You are not performing an action of praise directed outward. Rather, through the act of praising, through the vibration of words like "Waheguru," you are dissolving the false sense of a separate self that stands apart from existence. The "I am" that you feel—the sense of ego, of individual identity separate from everything else—begins to thin. What remains is a more direct recognition of the oneness that the Guru points to.

How Does the Mind Use Sensation and Thought as Distraction?

In addition to mental distraction, practitioners encounter physical distraction. When you sit down to practice Naam, you suddenly become aware of parts of your body—an itch, discomfort, a sensation in the leg. This does not happen when you are absorbed in work or entertainment; it happens specifically when you try to sit still and focus inward.

What is actually occurring? Your body is not suddenly becoming more uncomfortable; rather, your awareness is no longer being pulled outward, so it registers sensations that normally go unnoticed. This is valuable feedback. The practice teaches you to observe sensation without automatically reacting to it. You notice the itch but do not scratch. You feel discomfort but continue your practice. This is a fundamental training in the mastery of the mind over physical impulse.

Similarly, thoughts arise during meditation, and a common response is to judge yourself for "failing" because thoughts appeared. But Satpal Singh points out a subtle truth: the problem is not the presence of thought, but what you do with it. When you are in the early stages of practice, you have not yet trained the capacity to observe a thought and let it pass without grabbing onto it. You have one thought, and immediately you chase it—you follow the narrative, you elaborate, you get lost.

With practice and understanding, you learn to notice the thought arising, recognize it, and keep your awareness on the mantra. You do not suppress thought; you simply do not become entangled in it. This is an advanced skill that develops gradually.

Why Do Modern People Struggle to Understand Meditation?

Satpal Singh observes that meditation has not been properly understood by the modern world. Often it is repackaged as a stress-management technique or a wellness tool, something to make you feel better or more productive. This reduces Naam meditation to a therapeutic intervention rather than a path toward spiritual recognition.

The Guru's instruction is different. You are not meditating to reduce stress or optimize your day. You are meditating because, according to Gurbani, the first thing you must do when you wake is connect with Naam. This is the priority—not as a self-improvement project, but as a fundamental recognition of what sustains existence. When the Guru instructs you to do Naam meditation first, the instruction carries a different weight than "meditation is good for your mental health."

This distinction matters because if you approach Naam as stress management, you may practice for a few weeks and feel better. But when stress returns, you may abandon the practice, thinking it did not work. You have missed the point. Naam is not a tool to achieve a particular emotional state; it is a technology of awakening and recognition. The relaxation or peace that arises is a byproduct, not the goal.

How Does Naam Help Us Dissolve the Sense of Separate Self?

One of the deepest impacts of Naam Simran is its effect on the ego—the false sense of being a separate entity cut off from the rest of existence. The Guru uses praise as a vehicle for this dissolution.

When you repeatedly say "Waheguru," you are saying "God is everywhere" or "Wonderful Lord." You are not just repeating a word; you are acknowledging a reality—that everything you perceive, everything you are, is part of that one consciousness. The mind, by holding this vibration and this meaning, gradually releases its grip on the illusion of separation.

The emotions that bind us to a sense of separate self—sadness, stress, anxiety, worry—arise from the belief that "I am isolated, I am responsible for everything, I must defend myself against a threatening world." When you practice Naam and contemplate lines from Gurbani, you see that your worries disappear not because your external circumstances change, but because the very foundation of ego-driven anxiety—the belief in your isolation—is recognized as false.

Satpal Singh notes that you can take any line from Gurbani and find this teaching. The moon disappears when covered by clouds, but the moon is still there. Worries of the mind arise, but the life-force and the consciousness that sustains you remains unchanged. Through Naam, you begin to detach from the mind's emotional weather and recognize a deeper stability within.

What Is the Actual Practice of Naam Simran?

The mechanics of Naam practice are straightforward, though cultivating consistency requires discipline. You sit quietly and listen to the sound of your own voice as you repeat the mantra. You are not chanting loudly or energetically; you are listening internally. The focus is on the vibration of the word, not on producing a particular volume or pitch.

As you repeat the mantra, you simultaneously contemplate its meaning. If you are practicing with "Waheguru," you are thinking about what that means: the wonder of existence, the recognition of divinity everywhere, the awe at the unfolding of creation. You are not analyzing the definition; you are evoking the feeling and the understanding that the word contains.

Different people find different practices helpful. Some may repeat the mantra silently within the mind; others prefer to whisper it or speak it softly aloud. Some may synchronize the repetition with the breath. The Guru teaches that whatever technique allows you to keep your awareness on the sound and the meaning is the one for you. There is no single "correct" form; there is only the form that allows you to be present.

Satpal Singh emphasizes that this is not a mechanical exercise. You are not trying to reach a quota of repetitions. Rather, each time you sit, you are training the mind's capacity to be present, to listen, to turn inward, and to hold the understanding that you are not separate from what sustains all existence.

When Should You Practice Naam Simran?

The Guru's guidance is to practice Naam Simran first thing when you wake in the morning. This timing is significant. When you first wake, before the day's external demands pull your mind in all directions, your consciousness is closer to its natural state. The mind is less cluttered, more receptive. This is when the practice has the most potency.

There is no rigid requirement about duration. Some people practice for a few minutes; others practice for extended periods. The consistency matters more than the length. A brief, sincere practice done daily is more effective than occasional long sessions.

It is also crucial to understand that the point of practice is not to achieve a particular experience or state of mind during the sitting. If you expect to feel blissful or peaceful every time you sit, you will become discouraged when the mind is restless. The real transformation is subtle: over time, the practice shifts your relationship to your own mind and to existence itself. You become less identified with the mind's constant commentary. You recognize a deeper stability beneath the thoughts and emotions.

Where to Go From Here

Begin with a simple practice: choose a mantra (Satpal Singh recommends "Waheguru" or "Har Har"), sit quietly in the morning, and spend even five to ten minutes listening to the sound of your own voice as you repeat the mantra. Do not judge your experience. Do not expect the mind to be silent. Instead, observe whatever arises—thoughts, sensations, emotions—and gently return your attention to the sound and the meaning of the word.

As your practice deepens, explore the Gurbani that relates to the mantra you are using. Understand the wisdom that the Guru is pointing to. Recognize that Naam Simran is not about achieving a psychological state or solving your problems; it is about recognizing your true nature and your inseparable connection to the divine source of all existence.

Most importantly, maintain consistency. The Guru teaches that the daily, sincere practice of Naam is the foundation of spiritual recognition. Over time, the technique dissolves into a lived understanding: you are not separate, you are not isolated, you are not the small self you believed yourself to be.

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[0:01] I'm sure you would have noticed

[0:04] that when we sit

[0:06] down even for a few few minutes to

[0:09] listen to Kian to do n

[0:12] name or to sit and do Nam

[0:16] siman that it doesn't take very long for

[0:18] the mind to get

[0:22] distracted and one of the most

[0:26] common

[0:28] complaints feedbacks

[0:31] and frustrations that we

[0:33] feel

[0:38] is and because we

[0:41] have found Namsan difficult in the past

[0:45] because we find our mind to be so

[0:49] distracting sometimes we may find that

[0:51] it's offputting that we don't feel like

[0:54] doing that

[0:57] again

[0:59] but it isn't that when you sit down and

[1:02] do nams and your mind doesn't stay

[1:06] still it's that when you sit down and do

[1:08] Nam siman you first come to realize how

[1:12] busy your mind always

[1:16] is so today I'd like to share with you

[1:20] some of my personal thoughts based on

[1:24] whatever understanding Guru has allowed

[1:26] me to have on what can we do to help

[1:31] ourselves and what are we trying to do

[1:32] with

[1:36] nams when we sit and do nams on the

[1:39] first difficulty we find is that our

[1:41] mind seems to be talking very loud our

[1:44] mind seems to go all over the

[1:46] place the second destruction the SE the

[1:50] second difficulty that we find is when

[1:53] we're doing Namsan we're not told or

[1:56] we're not sure what should we be

[1:59] focusing on

[2:00] what are we supposed to be doing with

[2:02] our

[2:03] minds what are we looking

[2:07] for when we're sitting in nsim what are

[2:09] we trying to

[2:11] achieve so it's only when we sit and do

[2:14] V on these things can it help when we

[2:17] actually sit down and do the Nam Sim and

[2:19] then we have a little bit of

[2:21] understanding as to how we can try and

[2:22] achieve

[2:24] this we also

[2:26] find that as well as being distracted by

[2:29] thoughts

[2:31] we're also distracted by our body itself

[2:34] you may notice that when you sit down to

[2:36] do nams you start suddenly start

[2:39] becoming aware of different parts of

[2:40] your body maybe different parts of your

[2:43] body will feel uncomfortable maybe you

[2:46] feel a itch somewhere so all of a sudden

[2:49] your body seems like it's woken up and

[2:51] it's trying to get your

[2:56] attention I want you just to compare

[3:01] this with another time in your life when

[3:04] you don't feel this distracted but

[3:06] you're still sitting down for a couple

[3:08] of

[3:09] hours when we sit and do Nam siman it

[3:13] doesn't even take one or two minutes and

[3:14] our mind starts to convince us that this

[3:16] is too difficult if you sit down to

[3:20] watch TV or watch a movie have you

[3:24] notice that your mind is able to stay

[3:27] focused you don't get distracted you

[3:30] don't think about your

[3:32] body and I'm not interested in blaming

[3:34] anyone I'm not trying to make you feel

[3:35] any better or worse it's about trying to

[3:38] understand why does my mind focus on

[3:40] this but my mind seems to get very bored

[3:43] very

[3:44] quickly I don't know about you but

[3:48] sometimes you may have noticed that if

[3:50] you're sitting and doing part or if

[3:52] you're listening to gurbani within about

[3:55] 3 or 4 minutes you start yawning quite a

[3:58] lot what what is your mind doing your

[4:01] mind is trying to shut down I certainly

[4:04] had those

[4:05] experiences at school and at University

[4:07] when the teacher started talking you

[4:10] start feeling really sleepy and we see

[4:12] the same thing when we sit down to

[4:14] listen to gbani or part we don't see the

[4:17] same thing when we're listening to music

[4:19] or when we're watching TV so we have to

[4:21] understand what is our mind attracted by

[4:25] and what is our mind distracted

[4:28] by let's think of another example

[4:30] example if you go out into nature maybe

[4:34] you go into some beautiful countryside

[4:36] if you come across a mountain or a

[4:41] lake or maybe if you're looking up at

[4:43] the stars on a clear night have you

[4:47] noticed your mind can stay still you can

[4:51] just watch the

[4:53] Stars what's

[4:55] happening there are certain things that

[4:57] captivates the

[4:58] mind but but you have already noticed in

[5:01] yourself that there are certain times

[5:03] when the mind can be completely silent

[5:06] why is it that you can look at

[5:08] Countryside nature why is it that you

[5:10] can look at the stars and you can just

[5:11] keep looking you don't have a thought in

[5:14] your mind you don't compare the Stars to

[5:17] anything else you just are able to

[5:20] look so by looking at these two or three

[5:23] examples we see that the Mind needs

[5:26] something the Mind needs something to

[5:29] hold on to

[5:30] to and for this the guru has given us

[5:35] man the guru has given us Shabad the

[5:38] guru has given us something using

[5:41] sound one of the common questions that I

[5:44] get asked is am I allowed to think of a

[5:47] photo of the guru sometimes if we're

[5:50] doing namson we might have an image of

[5:52] gurun nanak but the guru's instruction

[5:55] is to listen to the sound of the

[5:57] shabbath itself that's why we using

[5:59] sound sound what is man what is nam it's

[6:02] the use of sound so youran has to be

[6:06] listening to the sound of your own

[6:09] voice now what is Kiran why was Kiran

[6:12] written in rags Rags is also a very

[6:16] sophisticated

[6:18] sound so Guru says that if you want to

[6:21] understand this Bary if you want to

[6:23] understand the words understand it

[6:25] through rugs so Guru has specifically

[6:28] given us the tech te of sound so when

[6:31] we're sitting and doing nams we must be

[6:34] putting Ouran on the sound of our own

[6:39] voice but the guru has also given us

[6:42] Words which are written in the common

[6:46] language so as well as sound Guru has

[6:50] also given us shabs so for example the

[6:52] guru hasn't just given you a sound like

[6:55] if I just play a piece of music that's

[6:57] not gurmat meditation because that's

[7:00] just listening to a sound Guru has given

[7:02] us Shabad Shabad means a word so sound

[7:06] and word so when we take a word like

[7:10] vuru

[7:13] orar we must listen to the sound put our

[7:16] Awareness on the sound but also on the

[7:19] meaning so when we're saying

[7:23] vuru we need to be thinking about the

[7:26] emotion what is it feel to say vah

[7:30] we have to try and evoke that EV emotion

[7:33] we have to bring that experience of V

[7:39] wow

[7:41] or again

[7:45] look that's a sound that's using sound

[7:50] for us to focus our awareness and by

[7:53] saying we are understanding the wisdom

[7:56] that everything is part of that one we

[7:59] can can call it Universal sound or

[8:01] Universal vibration so Nam is

[8:05] specifically the use of sound and the

[8:09] wisdom the understanding of what the

[8:11] word actually

[8:18] means so what are we trying to do with n

[8:21] this is a little bit about what the

[8:22] distractions are why it feels

[8:25] difficult but what are we actually

[8:27] trying to achieve

[8:31] as I've understood

[8:33] it gurbani wants us to use the technique

[8:38] of Nam siman to go within

[8:42] ourselves most of the time when we do

[8:45] Nam Simon we are looking outwards and if

[8:49] you notice when you sit still your mind

[8:53] is always trying to think about

[8:55] something external it's always got some

[8:58] external thing going on on some

[9:01] external it could be something to do

[9:03] with your house something to do with

[9:05] your work your own

[9:08] responsibilities it's always thinking

[9:10] about something external through Shabad

[9:13] we're trying to go

[9:15] internal and what we make the mistake of

[9:18] doing because the mind is always looking

[9:20] outwards in nams one of the mistakes

[9:22] that we do is we think about God like

[9:25] it's

[9:26] outwards that God is outside because

[9:29] everything else that our mind does is

[9:31] looks outside so it thinks in nams that

[9:33] God is also

[9:35] outside and so what we end up doing with

[9:37] namson is we create an idea that God is

[9:40] outside and we are calling God what

[9:43] namson has become is God

[9:46] calling the god that we think is outside

[9:49] is we're trying to call that God so Nam

[9:53] Sim is not God calling because the god

[9:55] that you're calling isn't

[9:57] outside so Nam s is the technique of

[10:00] going within yourself and rather than it

[10:03] being God calling it is God

[10:13] realizing recognize that which is within

[10:16] you Mo is that which is the very base of

[10:20] you the very nature of what you

[10:25] are so this is what gurmat is trying to

[10:28] do with the Nam

[10:30] we've talked about what are we trying to

[10:31] focus on we're focusing on the

[10:33] sound we're trying to understand the

[10:36] meaning of it V Guru we're trying to

[10:38] actually think about that meaning not

[10:40] that we're trying to dissect the meaning

[10:42] we're not trying to understand what is

[10:44] God at this point we're just trying to

[10:46] evoke the feeling of vah Guru

[10:50] or God is everywhere God is everywhere

[10:53] another shab remember gbani gives you

[10:56] lots of mans yeah we I've always

[10:59] recommended that you should do the man

[11:03] that works for you gbani gives us lots

[11:05] of man is another

[11:08] man har har that's another man gbani

[11:11] uses har quite a lot as well so I always

[11:15] recommend try one meditation with one

[11:19] man and then while you're learning try a

[11:23] different man as

[11:25] well the way I like to explain this is

[11:29] that

[11:32] if I was a swimming teacher and I had to

[11:35] teach you swimming when you get into the

[11:38] swimming pool for the first time you

[11:40] don't expect to swim to the other side

[11:43] on your first

[11:45] lesson so in the same way the first time

[11:48] you're doing Namsan or in the early

[11:50] stages of Namsan don't expect to go all

[11:52] the

[11:53] way because we're

[11:55] learning secondly if I'm a swimming

[11:58] teacher I will will teach you lots of

[12:01] different ways to swim the forward

[12:03] stroke the back stroke I'll show you

[12:05] different ways to move your arms

[12:07] different ways to move your legs I won't

[12:09] do them all at the same time the first

[12:11] lesson you'll learn one one technique

[12:14] the next lesson you'll learn a different

[12:15] technique this is what different mons

[12:17] does try different ones so what you want

[12:21] to do is you want to get to the point

[12:23] where you are comfortable with lots of

[12:25] different techniques so one day when I

[12:28] tell you to go into the swimming pool

[12:29] and I just tell you go to the other side

[12:33] what you will do is you will pick the

[12:34] one that is most comfortable to you the

[12:37] one that works for you you've tried all

[12:38] the different ones but you found the one

[12:41] that's easiest for you that's the one

[12:43] that gets you there the

[12:45] fastest so in the same way I encourage

[12:48] try different mans try doing them out

[12:51] loud try doing them quietly there's

[12:53] benefit in all of these things the

[12:55] recommendation is certainly when you're

[12:57] starting to do Nam you you start out

[13:00] loud because if we're trying to focus on

[13:02] the meaning of the sound and the actual

[13:04] sound of the voice then it's easier when

[13:07] you're doing it out loud as you get

[13:09] better at it then you can do nams

[13:13] quietly so we have to be comfortable

[13:17] with the fact that this is going to take

[13:19] some time don't expect that just because

[13:23] the first time you sit down and

[13:26] do my mind is all over the place that

[13:28] means

[13:29] namson works for everyone else but it

[13:31] doesn't work for me that's what we think

[13:35] somebody else may be able to do namson

[13:37] but it doesn't work for my mind so I'm

[13:39] just not going to try anymore no in the

[13:42] same way just as you can't swim the

[13:43] first time you get into the pool in the

[13:45] same way don't expect to go very far

[13:48] reduce your

[13:51] expectations

[13:53] now we also have to understand that if

[13:57] it is an internal Journey it means that

[14:00] there's something inside that we have to

[14:02] look

[14:04] for what are we looking for inside

[14:07] remember the mind is always looking

[14:10] outside but the technique of nams is to

[14:12] go

[14:15] inside gurbani specifically talks about

[14:17] this as though you're going on a

[14:21] yatra in the guru's times and even now

[14:25] there is this idea that if you want to

[14:27] get spiritual blessings you have to go

[14:29] to holy places it's called and by going

[14:33] to holy places and especially swimming

[14:35] in those holy pools that you will get

[14:38] some blessing gurun nanak d g says I

[14:41] also go to holy places I also go bathe

[14:45] in holy Rivers but my is

[14:52] internal n Nam means I don't have to get

[14:57] up and go somewhere I have to get up up

[14:59] and go inside I do go and bathe but I

[15:02] bathe in the of

[15:09] N I use the wisdom of the guru the

[15:13] wisdom of the Shabad remember what we

[15:14] talk about trying to understand what the

[15:16] word is and Anan I try and understand

[15:21] that which is within me internal

[15:28] wisdom

[15:29] the real the guru is saying is not to go

[15:32] to some holy places visit holy temples

[15:36] holy garas bathe in holy Rivers the real

[15:39] the is to go and understand that which

[15:41] is sacred within you there is something

[15:44] holy inside you but the technique we use

[15:47] is nam and Shabad bichar to get internal

[15:51] wisdom to find something that is inside

[15:55] you so what are some of the benefits of

[15:58] doing namson

[16:02] well the first difficulty that I talked

[16:05] about that the mind seems too loud let's

[16:07] look about look let's look at that as a

[16:10] benefit the benefit of that is that we

[16:13] start to realize that the mind is

[16:16] working independently of

[16:18] me normally we say these are my thoughts

[16:22] but when you sit down in nams even if

[16:24] you sit down for one minute quietly

[16:26] before you've even started namson the

[16:29] thoughts are talking

[16:30] away and you want to keep them quiet

[16:34] what that means is that you are not

[16:35] generating those thoughts the thoughts

[16:37] just seem to be coming on their own

[16:39] you're not the one making those thoughts

[16:41] happen so the first benefit that you see

[16:44] by seeing your noisy mind is you realize

[16:47] the mind is different I am something

[16:50] different I can look at the

[16:53] mind it's not a thought that's looking

[16:56] at the mind I am looking at the mind so

[16:59] the first thing that you learn with nams

[17:02] is that you can actually detach yourself

[17:04] from the Mind normally when the Mind

[17:07] gives you a thought you say yes that's

[17:10] my thought and whatever thought the Mind

[17:12] gives

[17:13] you you just jump on that

[17:17] thought there's a very simple analogy to

[17:21] understand the mind and the

[17:25] thoughts if you had to go to a different

[17:29] Town that's far away and you decided to

[17:31] take the train what do you do you go to

[17:34] the train station do you jump on the

[17:38] first train that

[17:40] arrives or do you wait for the train

[17:42] that's going to the town that you want

[17:44] to go

[17:45] to you don't just jump on the first

[17:47] train that

[17:49] arrives you stay on the

[17:52] platform on the train station until the

[17:56] correct train comes along

[17:59] and try to think about your mind in the

[18:01] same

[18:02] way think about Namsan as staying on the

[18:06] platform and thoughts like lots of

[18:10] trains that are coming and going all the

[18:12] time through

[18:14] practice you will learn to stay within

[18:18] yourself and not jump on every single

[18:20] thought but because we haven't got that

[18:23] practice most of the time as soon as a

[18:25] thought comes into our mind we jump on

[18:27] that thought we take it

[18:30] and what happens thoughts move so

[18:31] quickly that within a few seconds your

[18:34] thoughts have gone somewhere

[18:36] else so you may sit there in your

[18:41] thoughts and a sit there on the platform

[18:46] of your own mind the train station and a

[18:48] thought comes along that

[18:50] says when I go home I need to do

[18:53] this yeah that's a thought that can come

[18:55] into your mind I need to make sure that

[18:58] I do the the washing or I need to make

[19:00] sure that I've cleaned the dishes or the

[19:03] cooking is done for tomorrow a thought

[19:06] comes what we do is we jump on that

[19:09] thought as soon as we jump on that

[19:11] thought we say oh I also need to make

[19:13] sure I do

[19:14] this and last time my friend came to my

[19:18] house and I forgot to do it and my

[19:20] friend who came to my my house last time

[19:22] they borrowed some money from me and

[19:24] they haven't paid me that money back and

[19:27] in fact the last time my friend did that

[19:28] is when we were on holiday oh I must

[19:30] remember to book the next holiday but

[19:32] when we went on that holiday last

[19:35] time I didn't enjoy it so I have to go

[19:37] somewhere else and that person and that

[19:40] Holiday Hotel was very rude to me I

[19:42] can't believe what they said have you

[19:44] seen what's happened you had one thought

[19:48] within about 5 or 10 seconds you're on

[19:51] holiday

[19:52] somewhere what's happened you jumped on

[19:55] the train and the train went you have no

[19:57] control where that train is going it's

[19:59] just

[20:00] going that's because without

[20:03] acknowledging it you jumped on the train

[20:05] that is our natural response to jump on

[20:07] the train Nam Sim meditation is the

[20:10] practice to learn I don't have to jump

[20:12] on those thoughts so the first benefit

[20:14] and it's a benefit that your noise your

[20:17] noisy mind becomes clear to you it's not

[20:20] a bad thing it's a good thing you

[20:21] realize okay this is what the thought

[20:24] does but in the first time you will keep

[20:28] jumping on those thoughts so when you

[20:30] keep jumping on those

[20:33] thoughts you will very quickly even if

[20:36] you're doing Nam even if your voice is

[20:38] saying a your inner voice is is on

[20:42] holiday your inner voice is doing

[20:44] something

[20:45] else so the benefit of that is that you

[20:48] have a mon and what happens is every now

[20:51] and then your awareness comes back and

[20:53] you say oh I was supposed to be doing

[20:54] arm Simon so you jump off that train and

[20:57] you jump back on onto the platform you

[21:00] stay still and the Nam Simon is what

[21:03] reminds

[21:04] you Nam Simon is constantly reminding

[21:07] you that you weren't meant to be on this

[21:10] train you're on the wrong train come

[21:12] back so as soon as you realize that I'm

[21:16] thinking about something I'm supposed to

[21:17] be doing nsim allow that thought to go

[21:20] away jump off that thought you let that

[21:23] thought go away and you realize you're

[21:25] back on the train station of me you're

[21:28] the train station your awareness is the

[21:30] train

[21:32] station jump off that and stay on the

[21:36] train station by staying on N you bring

[21:39] your awareness back to n so that even if

[21:41] more thoughts come along you say nope

[21:43] I'm not going on that thought staying on

[21:46] the train station is helped by the fact

[21:48] that you keep your awareness on the man

[21:51] itself keeping your awareness on the man

[21:54] focusing on the man means that you're

[21:57] focusing on the train station

[21:59] not allowing every other thought to come

[22:05] along

[22:07] meditation is something that has been

[22:10] not understood by the modern world have

[22:13] you seen in the modern world everybody

[22:15] talks about meditation everyone says

[22:16] yeah I like to do meditation I like to

[22:18] do yoga I like to do

[22:20] mindfulness but what we're seeing now is

[22:23] those things are being done without

[22:27] wisdom so everybody says they do

[22:29] meditation but you want to talk about

[22:31] the real deeper meaning of what

[22:33] meditation is trying to do for you they

[22:34] say no no no I'm just doing meditation

[22:36] to relax meditation helps with my stress

[22:40] yoga helps with my stress but yoga

[22:43] mindfulness and meditation come from a

[22:46] wisdom so you can't practice them

[22:48] without learning the wisdom as well you

[22:51] have to learn the wisdom what is it

[22:52] trying to

[22:55] do so meditation yoga mindfulness are

[23:00] great if they are combined with the shab

[23:04] with the understanding of what they're

[23:06] trying to do if you think meditation is

[23:08] just about being stressfree yes that's

[23:12] one of the benefits of of doing any

[23:15] meditation but it's not the purpose of

[23:17] the meditation the meditation isn't just

[23:19] for Stress Management it's good for

[23:22] Stress Management but that's not what

[23:24] it's for it's to connect you with the

[23:26] Oneness but most people are not willing

[23:28] to go that far they don't want to

[23:30] connect with any Oneness they want to

[23:32] stay within them

[23:35] themselves so rather than just reduce

[23:38] stress what real Simon is trying to do

[23:41] is reduced

[23:44] self reduced sense of self we don't feel

[23:48] so much of May anymore the reason we

[23:52] feel a lot of may all the time is

[23:54] because in reality the mind is doing

[23:58] Simon all the

[24:00] time but it's not doing Nam Sim all the

[24:03] time it's doing me Sim all the

[24:06] time what happens the first thing when

[24:08] you wake up in the morning straight away

[24:10] when you wake up in the morning all the

[24:13] May thoughts start

[24:16] coming I need to do this I need to do

[24:18] that does that happen first thing as

[24:21] soon as you wake up in the

[24:23] morning so your thoughts keep telling

[24:26] you you need to do this you need to do

[24:27] this you need to do this in fact the

[24:29] mind is quite useful like that the

[24:32] purpose of the mind is to remind you of

[24:36] things I call the mind a personal

[24:39] assistant it's very useful it comes and

[24:41] it tells you these are all the things

[24:43] that you need to do straight away and

[24:45] not only does it tell you what you need

[24:47] to do it tells you in priority order it

[24:50] tells you first you need to do this you

[24:51] got some other stuff to do but this is

[24:53] more important so as an assistant it's

[24:55] really useful but what's happened is we

[24:58] don't let the mind be an assistant we've

[25:00] made the mind the

[25:02] master we're supposed to be the boss and

[25:04] the mind is supposed to be the personal

[25:06] assistant the secretary just telling you

[25:08] what to do but we've become the opposite

[25:10] way we wake up in the morning the mind

[25:13] tells us what to do and we listen to the

[25:16] mind like it's the boss and we say yes

[25:19] boss whatever you say I have to do

[25:22] it the purpose of Nam siman is to

[25:25] reshift that balance again so the Mind

[25:29] becomes our servant we have to become

[25:33] the master of the Mind man we have to

[25:36] win over the Mind mind can't be the boss

[25:39] if mind is the boss then it's constantly

[25:42] going to be shouting at you this kind of

[25:43] boss is always shouting in you you know

[25:45] you sometimes you get those kind of

[25:47] managers at work they're always telling

[25:48] you

[25:51] off and this kind of mind is always

[25:53] giving you work to do never gives you a

[25:57] break so do you want this kind of Boss

[26:00] do you want to be the servant of this

[26:02] mind because this mind is the thing that

[26:05] has also given you all the do in your

[26:07] life as soon as somebody says something

[26:10] bad to you even if you don't feel very

[26:13] bad the mind says oh I can't believe

[26:15] what that person said to

[26:16] me it's not you saying it it's your mind

[26:19] saying it oh can you believe what that

[26:21] person said I can't believe that's not

[26:23] the first time they've said that

[26:26] either so your mind is creating your do

[26:30] so then the mind has told you something

[26:33] look at what that person said or did and

[26:35] your body is having a emotional response

[26:38] your body is now starting to feel

[26:40] emotional pain because the mind has

[26:42] given you an instruction what if the

[26:44] Mind said look at what that person did

[26:47] but within you you say I don't need to

[26:49] listen to that mind because if I listen

[26:51] to you too much I'm going to start

[26:53] stressing I'm going to start feeling the

[26:56] emotion of sadness of stress of anxiety

[27:00] of fear so your dok is coming from the

[27:04] mind but with Nam Sim the idea

[27:10] is get rid of the DU why because we're

[27:14] controlling the thing that gives us the

[27:16] do the

[27:18] mind so these are one of the

[27:21] benefits Nam is not just to reduce

[27:24] stress it's to reduce

[27:27] May because the mind is always saying me

[27:30] it's doing me Sim all the time and by

[27:33] doing n we're replacing the me

[27:39] with what we're doing is we're replacing

[27:42] the

[27:43] idea that may is the most important

[27:46] thing in the mind Mind Is Telling You

[27:49] don't listen to anyone else may is the

[27:52] most important

[27:54] thing but with n with shab

[27:59] with with you you as our M we are

[28:03] realizing that me isn't the most

[28:05] important thing this Oneness that is

[28:08] inside and outside that is the most

[28:10] important thing in

[28:11] life so n is reprogramming the

[28:18] mind if you think about

[28:21] mind as software this software has got a

[28:25] virus and the virus is called

[28:28] may I am that's the virus it's polluting

[28:31] our mind it's polluting our

[28:33] body Shabad is the

[28:36] antivirus and the way the antivirus

[28:38] works is it deletes the old programming

[28:41] and it puts new programming we get rid

[28:44] of the me which is the man we delete

[28:48] that thinking and we replace it with the

[28:50] new software the new programming gurmat

[28:53] the guru's thinking and gurmat says may

[28:56] is not the most important thing

[28:58] is the most important thing Vu is the

[29:01] most important thing so that's why Nam

[29:04] is to

[29:06] constantly run in the

[29:08] background because instead of saying me

[29:11] me me all the time we're now

[29:12] reprogramming our

[29:14] [Music]

[29:15] mind so this is some of the things that

[29:18] we're trying to do with

[29:22] nams so we're trying to reduce the sense

[29:25] of self how does n help us reduce the

[29:28] sense of

[29:31] self

[29:32] Nam as I've understood it has two real

[29:38] stages that we use

[29:41] Shabad as not a way of getting something

[29:45] but as a way of

[29:48] praising the purpose of Shabad of n the

[29:52] purpose of saying vah is with praising

[29:55] vuru that's why the the most amazing man

[29:59] that gurun nanak devv g has come to this

[30:01] world with is

[30:04] wow when I'm teaching this to my

[30:06] children I'm saying gurun nanak d g gave

[30:08] us something called vah vuru and in

[30:11] English I explained to my children

[30:14] that's called wow

[30:15] Simon everything that we're doing

[30:19] vah we don't just have to do this nams

[30:22] and sitting down everything that we look

[30:24] around us vah look at the Sun wow look

[30:29] at the sky wow look at the birds wow

[30:33] look at nature wow look at Humanity wow

[30:37] look at what humans have been able to

[30:39] create V it's not because we're great

[30:42] we're not saying wow to the tree or to

[30:45] the birds or to the sky we're saying vah

[30:47] to the one behind it the one that's

[30:49] created all of this the energy behind

[30:52] everything the power the shy behind

[30:55] everything the kudr behind it

[30:59] so I explained to my children that by

[31:01] doing vah we're doing wow wow wow all

[31:04] the time and it's called wow simmeron

[31:07] and one of the things that we should be

[31:08] most Amazed by is this wow what is

[31:15] this I explained to my children that no

[31:19] toy that you have

[31:21] moves without you doing something or

[31:24] there some being some electricity or

[31:26] battery doing something

[31:29] if you have a toy it doesn't move on its

[31:31] own if you have a robot all the lights

[31:34] don't come on on its own all the arms

[31:36] and legs don't start moving on its own

[31:38] it has to have an energy a battery

[31:40] inside it what is this

[31:43] robot it seems to move without a

[31:47] battery but the truth is there is an

[31:49] energy inside us and that energy is Life

[31:53] Energy where does that life energy come

[31:55] from it's pretty amazing if you think

[31:56] about it

[31:59] what is the difference between you and a

[32:02] dead dead

[32:04] body same arm same legs same head same

[32:09] internal organs Eyes Ears Nose heart

[32:11] lungs what's the difference the

[32:14] difference between you and a dead body

[32:17] is they are switched off and you are

[32:19] switched on you're switched on right now

[32:22] there's something inside you that's

[32:23] switched on what is it that is switched

[32:26] on what is that electricity inside us

[32:30] that is The Wonder of

[32:33] wuru we are switched on but we can't

[32:36] seem to find what is the thing that

[32:38] switches us on that is the life energy

[32:41] that has been infused into

[32:44] us where does that life energy come from

[32:47] isn't that something amazing isn't that

[32:49] something worth saying wow whyu that's

[32:52] pretty amazing and you're right here

[32:55] you're keeping me alive you're keeping

[32:56] me going

[32:58] so when I'm doing nams I'm trying

[33:00] personally not to look outside I'm just

[33:02] amazed by what is inside let alone

[33:05] what's outside and when you look outside

[33:08] look at all the galaxies and the

[33:10] billions of stars and the moons I'm sure

[33:12] you must have seen these videos on

[33:14] Facebook and YouTube where they show a

[33:17] person and then they zoom out and then

[33:19] they show a country and then they zoom

[33:21] out and then they show the planet and

[33:23] then the moon and then the solar system

[33:26] and then the Sun and then all the other

[33:28] solar systems and then all of that's

[33:30] just in one Galaxy it zooms out and then

[33:32] there's billions of galaxies and then

[33:34] you think

[33:36] wow so guruji has given us this

[33:39] technique already vah when we're doing

[33:42] vah Guru we're evoking the emotion of

[33:45] wow every moment is amazing and S the

[33:49] biggest blessing is every time you take

[33:52] a breath

[33:54] in even breath you you're

[33:59] breathing so breath is another important

[34:03] element that the guru has told us

[34:07] about

[34:08] [Music]

[34:11] sind previously they used to be the

[34:14] technique that people just used to sit

[34:16] in silence or they used to just focus on

[34:19] a picture or they used to focus on their

[34:23] breath the guru was aware of all these

[34:26] different techniques but the Guru says

[34:28] sitting in silence doesn't silence the

[34:33] mind and the guru looked at the breath

[34:36] and said rather than just focusing on

[34:38] the breath take the breath and put

[34:40] Shabad on top of it put a man on top of

[34:42] it put n on top of

[34:44] it that's when it's going to be really

[34:47] effective for

[34:49] you

[34:53] simind the worries of the Mind start to

[34:57] to

[35:00] disappear why do the worries of the Mind

[35:02] start to disappear because your focus is

[35:04] not now on the thoughts of the mind your

[35:06] focus is on

[35:09] goind so we have something else to bring

[35:12] our awareness

[35:14] to so Nam is to use V praise and we can

[35:20] even do any man that works for you

[35:24] sometimes I encourage that if your mind

[35:26] one thing find your mind gets bored very

[35:29] easily even if you pick one mon your

[35:31] mind will get bored very easily that's

[35:33] why I say the next day try a different

[35:38] man and if just doing a single word

[35:42] starts to get boring because your mind

[35:44] gets used to things very easily then

[35:46] take a tu from

[35:49] gbani you can take any line from gurbani

[35:52] and you can just repeat that

[35:54] line one thing I've enjoyed using is

[35:58] very useful when you're walking around

[36:01] try once for 24 hours to just

[36:06] say let that be your

[36:09] n and you will notice that even as when

[36:12] you're driving and somebody drives in

[36:14] front of you and cuts you off in traffic

[36:17] and normally your mind will say get

[36:19] angry at that person but a man or a shab

[36:24] like will say I don't need to listen to

[36:26] you mind I don't need your reaction to

[36:30] be my first

[36:32] reaction

[36:34] remember your response to the world is

[36:38] your

[36:41] responsibility we like to think that if

[36:44] somebody has made us feel upset it's

[36:46] their responsibility they at fault but

[36:50] you can't control what they do you

[36:53] cannot control what all the other

[36:54] drivers are doing you can't control what

[36:56] the whole world world is doing we can't

[36:58] control the

[37:00] weather we can't control the external

[37:03] and normally we can't control the

[37:05] internal our response we can't control

[37:07] it whatever our first response is that

[37:09] the the master the Mind whatever that

[37:12] tells us we listen to it we say yes

[37:14] that's the right

[37:15] response but as you do more you realize

[37:18] that might not be the right response so

[37:20] you detach yourself from the mind and

[37:22] you think what is the right response so

[37:25] remember your response

[37:27] if somebody is agitating you you cannot

[37:29] control them but you can control your

[37:32] response your response is your

[37:35] responsibility you can choose so you

[37:38] can't choose that the other person said

[37:40] something mean to you but you can choose

[37:42] and take responsibility for the fact

[37:44] that you got angry or you got upset

[37:46] that's your

[37:48] choice and you only know that when you

[37:50] start doing nams and meditation you can

[37:53] start realizing the mind has a first

[37:55] response that doesn't have to to be my

[37:57] first

[37:59] response so Nam uses praise as a way to

[38:05] sayi and your first response should be

[38:08] this is wuru as well this is wuru this

[38:12] is wuru this is wuru and this is wuru

[38:15] then you won't be able to say I am angry

[38:17] at

[38:18] you you'll say wuru has said something

[38:21] to Wahu and Wahu is okay with

[38:25] it sometimes you might even say

[38:29] wuru is okay with it but the mind is

[38:33] agitated because you've created a

[38:38] distinction so we use praise so the

[38:42] first I said Nam has two steps the first

[38:45] step of Nam Simon a nam is n praise we

[38:50] look at jab it says nam nam nam all the

[38:53] time Nam means I praise you I bow down

[38:57] to you that's the first bit of Nam siman

[38:59] that everything that you say everything

[39:01] that you see you say I bow down to you I

[39:04] bow down to you I bow down to you

[39:06] because you are wuru but don't make a

[39:09] duality that wuru is outside and not

[39:11] inside bow the Bowing should also be

[39:15] internal when the Bowing goes internal

[39:19] Nam goes to the second phase where

[39:21] everything becomes you you wuru Wahu

[39:24] wuru

[39:25] wuru and this comes vuru Nam has gone

[39:28] into the second stage Nam has gone from

[39:31] Nam to

[39:33] [Music]

[39:34] n Nam starts with Nam praise and ends

[39:39] with Nam there is no me there is only

[39:50] you tells us this process of Nam by

[39:53] doing I became that

[39:58] nothing was left of

[40:04] me when the the barrier the curtain

[40:08] between me and everything else was

[40:11] destroyed then everywhere I saw I saw

[40:14] you including me so it's not then I can

[40:18] see God it is God can see

[40:22] God wuru is looking at wuru there is no

[40:25] me left that is the end end of Namsan

[40:29] that is where Namsan is the destination

[40:31] of nams Namsan is the

[40:35] technique and Nam Sim is the destination

[40:38] Nam is the destination as

[40:41] well so Nam starts with Namo praise and

[40:46] it ends with n no

[40:49] me how do we do this as I start wrapping

[40:53] up towards the end of this talk now how

[40:55] do we do this we do this without any

[41:00] desires if you're doing Nam Sim with

[41:02] some desire even the desire I want to

[41:06] find God you will not find

[41:10] God if you're saying I'm doing nams come

[41:14] on God remember I said that normally we

[41:16] do nams as God calling come on wuru come

[41:19] on wuru come on wuru that's what we do

[41:22] with

[41:25] nams if if you're saying I'm waiting for

[41:28] you I'm waiting for you I'm waiting for

[41:29] you whose Simon are you really doing if

[41:32] you're saying I'm waiting for God I am

[41:34] waiting for God I am waiting for God

[41:36] then what you're really saying is I am I

[41:38] am I am the May hasn't

[41:42] gone and as long as there is a may God

[41:45] is not

[41:48] outside God is not waiting to come from

[41:50] the outside into you God is inside

[41:54] waiting to come

[41:55] out God is already

[42:03] here God is not far away Guru is saying

[42:07] but why don't we know

[42:19] it when my mind began to learn and

[42:23] accept the satgur bachan the words of

[42:25] the guru then I found God as the energy

[42:29] of my own

[42:32] life not even the energy of Life the one

[42:36] supporting the energy of my life the

[42:38] Adar of my

[42:40] pran this is what is coming from gur

[42:45] gr stop making Nam God calling come on

[42:50] God you're far away you need to come

[42:52] near

[42:54] me guruji is explaining God is already

[42:57] inside

[42:59] you so we must do it without

[43:03] expectations because expectation means I

[43:06] want nams is not I

[43:10] want Nam Sim starts with Nam more I

[43:16] Surrender I

[43:19] give so namon is take not give it is the

[43:25] process of asking the guru to take me

[43:29] take the May away from me why

[43:35] cuz the me is the Rival of Nam so if

[43:41] you're doing Nam Sim with a me I am

[43:44] finding God I'm waiting for God I'm

[43:45] looking for God then there is an I am

[43:49] then you're not doing Nam siman

[43:54] because the I am is is the opposite of

[43:58] Namsan I am is the Rival of namson that

[44:02] means Nam is to defeat the I am not to

[44:05] call God get rid of the I am if I am is

[44:09] finding is finding God if I am is

[44:11] looking for God when you get rid of the

[44:14] I am then God is left God becomes

[44:20] pargat so Nam siman is the process of

[44:23] not calling God but realizing the god

[44:26] that is already sitting inside

[44:29] you and the way you do it is you don't

[44:31] have any expectations so in your Nam Ser

[44:33] don't even have the expectation I'm

[44:36] waiting for something to happen no let

[44:40] go of that as well let go of the I'm

[44:42] waiting for something to happen and I'll

[44:44] tell you how easy this

[44:46] is when you go to the beach and you lie

[44:50] in the

[44:51] Sun and you're enjoying the nice

[44:54] weather you're not saying I'm waiting

[44:56] waiting for something to

[44:58] happen you're not waiting for anything

[45:00] you're just enjoying the

[45:02] moment sunbathing I don't know if you do

[45:05] that here it's so hot certainly in

[45:07] England as soon as the sun comes out

[45:10] everybody's out in the garden t-shirt

[45:12] comes off everything is off and you're

[45:13] just enjoying the one minute of sunshine

[45:16] that you

[45:17] get but in that you're not saying I'm

[45:19] waiting for something to happen you're

[45:21] just enjoying the moment in nam Sim stop

[45:24] waiting for something to happen enjoy

[45:27] being within yourself cuz the God is

[45:29] already there don't say where is the god

[45:32] I'm looking for God cuz then there still

[45:34] I am so in nam Sim you have to get

[45:37] comfortable with the idea I'm not

[45:39] waiting for anything just sit on the

[45:42] platform sit on the train

[45:45] station and slowly slowly you will

[45:47] realize this is God not the

[45:50] mind this is

[45:53] God this itself

[45:57] this pran this life energy that which is

[46:00] behind it everything is God and the

[46:02] realization should come oh I get it this

[46:05] is actually God the very experience of

[46:07] being here the aliveness isn't you it's

[46:11] not your J that's inside you it's

[46:16] God's it's God's energy inside you the

[46:20] body is not yours you didn't make this

[46:21] body either God made this body what what

[46:26] choice did you have in this body you

[46:28] didn't make it so this body this mind

[46:32] this experience of

[46:36] self this Atma is the

[46:41] paramatma so in namson have no

[46:44] expectations let go of yourself let go

[46:47] of the one doing the Nam

[46:50] Simon because if you're even holding on

[46:53] to the small delusion that I am doing

[46:56] doing

[46:57] nams the I am is still

[46:59] there even if you hold on to thing look

[47:02] how great I am that I'm sitting here and

[47:04] doing

[47:05] nams the I am is still there the I am

[47:09] has to be let

[47:12] go you almost have to set yourself free

[47:15] so that there's no I am left all that is

[47:17] left

[47:19] is so wuru grows and becomes burget

[47:23] inside you when the Mind lets go

[47:28] so my final thing that I want to say

[47:30] about Nam Simon is

[47:33] unlike

[47:34] meditation Nam siman is not restricted

[47:38] to any pose or any position or any time

[47:42] of

[47:43] day yes there is am and it's certainly

[47:47] recommended that you do it at that time

[47:48] because the mind has a lot more free

[47:51] time if you wake up at 6:00 in the

[47:54] morning your mind is already telling you

[47:55] what you need to do for the day if you

[47:57] wake up at 3:00 in the morning you'll

[47:59] realize I don't need to think about

[48:01] those things it's quiet the outside

[48:04] world is quiet and I have plenty of time

[48:07] do your Nam Sim at 3:00 but the gurat

[48:10] recommendation is don't stop after nams

[48:14] is Art 24 hours a day so that means nams

[48:19] can be done sitting down but it should

[48:22] also be

[48:25] done

[48:27] 24 hours a day while you're standing

[48:30] while you're walking around while you're

[48:31] eating while you're talking to other

[48:33] people there has to be this

[48:35] understanding inside you that Nam is the

[48:39] Oneness everything is the Oneness God is

[48:41] eating God God is talking to God God is

[48:43] driving the car God is

[48:46] hungry God is

[48:49] tired so Guru has given us 24 hours now

[48:53] Sim but there is value in sitting and

[48:56] doing it I like to call this the

[48:58] concentrated nams when you're not having

[49:00] to think about anything else it's hard

[49:02] when you're walking around your mind can

[49:04] get distracted all the

[49:06] time it's hard to walk around and do Nam

[49:09] because then it'll be like oh there's my

[49:10] friend oh there's the person I don't

[49:13] like oh there's some bananas I need to

[49:16] pick them up on the way home you see

[49:17] your mind can get easily distracted so

[49:19] this is like a concentrated version it

[49:21] allows you to do it without too many

[49:24] other distractions

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