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[0:04] hello everybody I hope that our internet
[0:09] connections will really work we're also
[0:12] recording this conversation or this talk
[0:14] and it's amazing that we see while our
[0:17] world really changed and that within a
[0:21] very short time and I believe that the
[0:26] that exactly what we are doing now is
[0:31] something really important for our time
[0:34] which means to come together in
[0:38] whichever way because it but the
[0:40] community building and creating
[0:43] intelligent networks that a supportive
[0:48] where we are relational and that we use
[0:51] the relational capacities that every one
[0:55] of us has got is a tremendous upgrade of
[1:00] resilience and I wanna walk us today
[1:05] first through a talk and then maybe
[1:09] through a short practice and then after
[1:14] the short practice that we have a little
[1:18] space for q and A's but I wanna address
[1:23] like different parts of us today that I
[1:27] think are all important and I want to
[1:29] start with a personal you know a
[1:31] personal interior like my experience as
[1:35] a human being because what this times
[1:39] call for is to be truly human and before
[1:46] we talk about like big ideas or
[1:50] philosophical reflections on this
[1:53] situation I think it's truly important
[1:56] to look Who am I as a human being what
[2:01] are my fears but are my concerns what
[2:05] stress comes up in me so my fears and my
[2:10] concerns and distress that comes up in
[2:12] me is
[2:15] [Music]
[2:16] is very important and so many of us I
[2:23] think many of us that practiced over the
[2:26] last many of us decades contemplative
[2:31] practices we we did many of us that are
[2:35] online right now most probably did some
[2:38] kind of therapy have thousands of
[2:41] meditation hours and so that practice I
[2:45] often say this is the time where we all
[2:49] have been thrown into the river and now
[2:52] it's about swimming because no one
[2:55] really knows where that river is going
[2:57] to now but we know that we have to trust
[3:01] our swimming capacities and that's the
[3:04] time all the spiritual practice that
[3:08] really had an effect which means that
[3:11] embodied so all the spiritual practices
[3:16] that we have embodied are now part of
[3:21] our resilience and so we all know that
[3:26] uncertainty health words or economically
[3:35] and relationally for our families are
[3:42] that uncertainty is one of the best
[3:46] triggers for our deepest fears and
[3:49] that's why I think when we many of you
[3:54] know that I'm deeply into the work with
[3:58] and kind of researching the dimension of
[4:02] collective trauma individual and
[4:04] collective trauma that gets triggered in
[4:07] these times much much more and so many
[4:11] of our fears are when they when they
[4:16] come up right now it everything looks
[4:19] more scary and we have to have practices
[4:21] how to work those fears because we are
[4:25] not in for a short sprint
[4:30] we are in for a longer run and and to
[4:35] take care that we maintain our nervous
[4:40] systems capacity to constantly
[4:45] self-regulate like to see oh wow it's
[4:48] uncertain I'm getting scared I'm getting
[4:51] stressed and then there are two options
[4:54] either those fears grow and grow and
[4:57] grow and become kind of more and more
[5:00] overwhelming so that I I start drowning
[5:03] in my fears or I become a void and and
[5:07] distant and I believe we have to watch
[5:12] out for both because if I if I become
[5:15] avoidant and distant and I can talk
[5:17] about the situation I can I can have
[5:20] great mental ideas but I'm actually any
[5:23] not any more fully in as a human being
[5:27] with my heart and so the vulnerability
[5:32] of our heart in a crisis situation is
[5:35] part of a tremendously important
[5:39] supercomputer like on the level of our
[5:43] heart when our hearts are open there is
[5:45] it a coherence function built into the
[5:49] human supercomputer and I think that's
[5:52] what the times call for this time needs
[5:55] to be run by love and and run by love is
[6:00] not just a slogan it's now my my
[6:05] practice to stay connected to my
[6:10] vulnerability is very important so to
[6:15] stay connected to my vulnerability is
[6:18] very important because that keeps my
[6:19] heart open and that keeps me in it in a
[6:22] kind of an emic coherence field and I'm
[6:25] able to create that coherence around me
[6:29] so many of the fears that come up now
[6:33] they are actually not really related to
[6:37] the current moment many of the fears
[6:39] that come up
[6:41] is fear and stress that is stored in our
[6:45] bodies either from our developmental
[6:49] time as children or what our ancestors
[6:53] went through the coal collective trauma
[6:55] field many people experience fears that
[6:58] come up when when it looks like that
[7:01] things are becoming scarce that we are
[7:04] threatened health-wise so we need ways
[7:07] how to worked it and one and we will go
[7:10] afterwards through a practice how I
[7:12] think that what's a helpful practice to
[7:16] continuously ground myself that I find
[7:19] resource parts of my body our body I
[7:22] believe in this time is very important
[7:27] our body is not just 30 50 75 years old
[7:36] my body is hundreds of thousands of
[7:39] years old and the intelligence that is
[7:44] stored in my body is the concentrated
[7:48] liquid of humanity in every one of us
[7:53] our ancestors went through crisis
[7:58] already and the resilience of it sits
[8:03] here otherwise we wouldn't be here and I
[8:06] think that's very important the cells of
[8:09] our bodies our emotional systems our
[8:11] mental systems our capacities to relate
[8:14] our capacities to to do to do and give
[8:19] in times of scarcity to do things that
[8:23] are creatures where we support each
[8:25] other where we stay open to each other
[8:28] these capacities are in US and and it's
[8:33] very important to remember them and even
[8:35] invoke them to consciously connect to
[8:39] the fact that generations after
[8:42] generations we had already crisis
[8:46] around the world in different parts of
[8:48] the world but we we know how to be in
[8:52] that
[8:54] and so when I when I look at my own my
[9:01] own internal process that I did I first
[9:05] of all keep a tracking of my my inner
[9:08] awareness who how do I feel right now
[9:11] who am i today and then I can check in
[9:15] with myself if I get really speedy and
[9:18] stressed were if I get avoidant and then
[9:22] I can come back to myself see okay and
[9:24] take a deeper breath I connect to my
[9:27] body
[9:28] I see that my body is open and alive
[9:32] because the live parts of my body are
[9:35] there live parts of my nervous system so
[9:39] I can connect for a few moments to my
[9:41] body and really get to know the part of
[9:44] my body that where I feel myself that's
[9:46] how I can ground myself that's how my
[9:50] nervous system can exhale and then I can
[9:55] include my stress my fear and presence
[9:59] it and as I said before we are all human
[10:03] beings and and I believe we are living
[10:06] in a time where our humanity is being
[10:08] asked for at least in the first place
[10:12] and so when I learned to regulate myself
[10:16] and I can do it myself it's fantastic if
[10:18] not and maybe I'm alone at home and
[10:21] stuff comes up in me were anyway also
[10:26] stuff can happen in our economic
[10:29] workplace and and income so that we
[10:33] really reach out and we process first
[10:35] that part with somebody else if it's too
[10:39] overwhelming for me
[10:40] and and we create community supportive
[10:43] community because as I said before we
[10:46] have been thrown into River and we all
[10:50] don't know where we are swimming to and
[10:52] we need we need to support each other
[10:55] while we are swimming and and so we will
[11:01] do it afterwards we will do a practice
[11:04] together a short contemplation
[11:06] of self-regulation how I can regulate
[11:09] myself and how I can be with the kind of
[11:13] uncertainty and the effects of of my
[11:16] uncertainty and so that's one thing the
[11:20] other thing is that we there is
[11:24] co-regulation I said before it's very
[11:26] intelligent more often than not to reach
[11:30] out to have conversations because fear
[11:33] can become a stagnation in our system or
[11:36] if I keep on sharing my inner process
[11:40] with others not compulsively but if I
[11:43] keep on sharing what's happening for me
[11:45] I move energy and so compassionate
[11:49] listening like that I really presents
[11:51] you when you tell me how you feel and
[11:54] you presents me and I tell you without
[11:56] keeping immediately good advice just to
[11:59] be there for each other
[12:01] and to feel each other is great every
[12:06] nervous system has potentially has a
[12:12] capacity to Co regulate another nervous
[12:16] system if you are very hurt maybe it's
[12:19] kind of reduced but that capacity is it
[12:24] is a tremendously important function
[12:28] today when you tell me about your stress
[12:31] and I can be with you not because I want
[12:34] to give your intellectual advice because
[12:37] I just want to be with you and I want to
[12:41] feel you then between us we create the
[12:47] field our two nervous systems or in
[12:50] small groups we create fields and those
[12:54] fields create stability and I believe
[12:58] what we need right now is to create
[13:00] coherent fields where we can digest
[13:04] together and what to be digest with I
[13:08] chest our individual and collective past
[13:14] so we digest our individual and our coal
[13:19] if passed together because the ghosts of
[13:23] the past d all the undigested material
[13:26] that sits in our nervous system and
[13:28] there is quite enough there individually
[13:31] my own shadows and my own pre
[13:34] traumatization and their ancestral and
[13:37] collective dramatization is a lot of
[13:39] energy and what this time show us is
[13:42] that many of these ghosts start to come
[13:45] up and one message of this time is to
[13:51] digest the stuff that's coming up one
[13:58] message of this time is to digest the
[14:02] material that's coming up individually
[14:04] and collectively I think that's the way
[14:06] how to ground ourselves and keep us and
[14:11] our social networks more grounded and
[14:16] somehow as a side effect I think the
[14:23] whole global situation shows us the
[14:27] level of disembodiment like how we are
[14:30] not really embodied in nature I believe
[14:34] one one way that we see right now is
[14:37] kind of a global reset it's been in the
[14:42] we would say when the structure is not
[14:45] strong enough to contain the growth when
[14:48] there is more and more and more and more
[14:49] growth without grounding that growth in
[14:55] our bodies and through our bodies in
[14:58] nature then things go out of balance and
[15:02] in there in this spiritual science we
[15:06] say there is space there's energy and
[15:09] structure space is the capacity to to
[15:15] reflect space is the capacity to digest
[15:18] and what will be digest our experience
[15:23] so that we can stay in a regulated space
[15:27] undigested past like trauma and shadows
[15:30] and
[15:31] and living too fast is filling up our
[15:35] storage in our nervous system with
[15:39] material and we don't have endless
[15:42] storage so the stress levels the
[15:45] internal stress levels are rising and
[15:48] that's where relational achievement
[15:52] nervous system synchronization
[15:55] intelligent community building really
[15:59] being with each other but not to just as
[16:03] I said before not just to give
[16:04] immediately mental advice because mental
[16:07] advice often separates us more than it
[16:10] connects us what is more called for is a
[16:14] heartfelt connectivity where we feel
[16:18] each other and we learn to coagulate
[16:20] each other so been but my friend a
[16:23] family member my neighbor is really
[16:26] stressed feeling the person while
[16:30] listening to the person creates like
[16:32] often a sense of relaxation and the next
[16:38] step I believe is building intelligent
[16:43] community networks we all have to invest
[16:47] now time in group presencing there is an
[16:52] amazing passage in the Bible and there
[16:59] abhrush people on man Sinai had a mass
[17:04] awakening what it says is that the voice
[17:10] of God the highest universal truth spoke
[17:15] to the whole community not just to Moses
[17:18] but to the whole community and everybody
[17:24] said afterwards the voice of God spoke
[17:28] to me personally everybody said the
[17:33] voice of God spoke to me personally and
[17:36] why I'm saying that is because there is
[17:39] a principle how the collective and the
[17:42] individual are connected
[17:45] that the most universal is not general
[17:51] the most universal is very specific
[17:55] which means in the whole on a whole
[17:58] spiritual journey or in a developmental
[18:00] journey the the individual expression is
[18:05] important because all of us are kind of
[18:09] the individual expression of the most
[18:11] universal but it also means and I think
[18:17] many people that were already in intense
[18:20] groups workshops seminars in in very
[18:25] intense team periods where teams work
[18:29] together we know that group presencing
[18:34] is a very powerful function in humanity
[18:41] so group presencing is a very powerful
[18:45] function and the higher is the group
[18:49] coherence the more intelligent is
[18:53] everybody within that group and it's
[18:57] interesting why so there is a kind of a
[19:01] cloud computing function that is more
[19:04] than just multiple individuals in the
[19:09] same space so that cloud computing
[19:13] function I believe is a very powerful
[19:16] healing resource and it's also a very
[19:20] powerful resource for innovation so
[19:24] intelligent networks and there are many
[19:27] networks that when we add the right
[19:29] ingredients like we said before
[19:33] individual processing individual
[19:39] processing that I know how to regulate
[19:41] myself then co-regulation
[19:47] functional attuned relationship and
[19:50] listening and group presencing when we
[19:55] come together like now there are
[19:57] thousands of
[19:58] people online right now and we all can
[20:02] get this sense even if you are sitting
[20:04] thousands of miles apart all over the
[20:07] world most probably we can get a sense
[20:09] of that group filled that group filled
[20:15] is a tremendously intelligent expression
[20:18] that exceeds the some of us right now as
[20:26] as I am talking we can feel thousands of
[20:30] people being killed in dialed in to this
[20:34] moment and I have seen I have seen in my
[20:42] workshops with eight groups of people
[20:49] how that group function of group
[20:54] coherence is tremendously healing over
[20:59] and over and over again so I have seen
[21:01] in many many groups with big groups
[21:05] hundreds up to thousand people that when
[21:08] we come together and be attuned to each
[21:11] other is a group so everybody in the
[21:13] group fills everybody else not as
[21:16] individuals but as a field it creates a
[21:19] tremendous healing resource for
[21:21] everybody and we need that function now
[21:25] because fear is the tendency that we if
[21:29] there is a collective fear there is a
[21:31] tendency of downgrading or
[21:34] disintegrating higher functions in
[21:36] consciousness and what we need now is an
[21:39] up leveling of coherence so that we
[21:43] stabilize the collective field and that
[21:47] stabilization of the collective field is
[21:52] actually I believe what we what we have
[21:56] to learn in in such a crisis so the the
[22:02] three elements that I was talking about
[22:04] is self-regulation
[22:10] no regulation group coherence creating
[22:15] intelligent networks coming together
[22:17] with the purpose and intention as small
[22:21] teams as big teams in hospitals in
[22:24] organizations in in people who work
[22:27] remotely from home to really support the
[22:32] to really support also when we work
[22:36] remotely from home as many companies do
[22:38] now we have to invest time in the
[22:41] collective coherence so that we have
[22:44] calls or some calls where we all come
[22:46] together just for the sake of coming
[22:47] together even if that it first doesn't
[22:50] look like an efficient thing to do it's
[22:53] an important thing to do because it
[22:55] keeps the organism of the company or the
[22:58] institution kind of synchronized and I
[23:01] believe that's also important for our
[23:03] healthcare system to upgrade the immune
[23:07] system through every one of us being
[23:10] mindful and supportive of the healthcare
[23:13] system but also to have kind of we
[23:17] practices how to strengthen the whole
[23:21] system of a hospital for example
[23:23] I think that's tremendously important
[23:25] and a few more things and then I would
[23:31] love to do the practice and then to
[23:33] respond to some of the questions that
[23:34] came in the last points will be talked
[23:40] about the individual the I Dow the we
[23:44] and now we talked about for a moment
[23:46] about the spiritual resourcing is as
[23:54] important as it seems at first the
[24:00] spiritual resourcing is about presencing
[24:05] presencing means that i come back like
[24:08] so mindfulness practices as we will do a
[24:11] bit later that again and again to what's
[24:14] happening now and to be able to
[24:16] differentiate between things that come
[24:18] up from the past and what's actually
[24:20] happening now and then to help myself to
[24:23] integrate
[24:24] was coming up from the past often we say
[24:29] in these moments we need hope and even
[24:34] even if that's very human
[24:36] I believe that hope is also kind of the
[24:41] equivalent of the undigested fear that
[24:44] is in the system so when we say we need
[24:46] hope often behave fear in presence we
[24:52] have an inner connection to the essence
[24:56] of life we have an inner connection to
[25:00] the essence of life deaths where
[25:03] presence is the place where the future
[25:06] is being born presence is the birthplace
[25:11] of the future and is the integration
[25:16] tool for the past so presence is a
[25:20] tremendously important resource presence
[25:24] is the birthplace of the future and
[25:27] presence is the integration process of
[25:31] the past so it's both presence is
[25:34] tremendously important and when we when
[25:39] we look for example at Auto Shamas work
[25:41] like the theory you'll that is widely
[25:44] accepted or like widespread and also in
[25:47] many business circles
[25:49] the U is about presence presencing and
[25:53] presencing is a very important function
[25:56] of innovation and right now we need a
[25:59] lot of social micro innovation like we
[26:03] need local social micro innovation and I
[26:07] believe presencing is it is a
[26:10] tremendously important function of them
[26:13] so when we have when we have local
[26:18] communities networks who are global
[26:21] communities and networks and we through
[26:24] presencing we we can up level our
[26:28] capacity for micro innovation if you
[26:32] need now a lot of local and of obviously
[26:35] also global innovation
[26:38] but many people together also in local
[26:41] communities can have a lot of innovative
[26:44] capacities unleashed in order to deal
[26:47] with the situation in unexpected like
[26:50] unexpected forms and so local and global
[26:56] innovation is a function of presencing
[26:59] that's why we want to support that that
[27:01] aspect of us and the spiritual resource
[27:05] lies in presence so since we also many
[27:10] people have more time now because many
[27:12] many of us at home
[27:14] many of us are many of us are like work
[27:20] rounded or a town that we cannot we
[27:22] cannot really leave our home places so
[27:27] we we can use some of the time to do
[27:31] mindfulness practices contemplative and
[27:34] meditation practices in order to come to
[27:38] a deeper state of presence as I said
[27:40] before the deeper state of presence is
[27:43] the birthplace of the future and is the
[27:47] integration function of the past so it's
[27:50] it's something very powerful and so I
[27:55] would love to for us to because we are
[27:59] so many online right now let's see if
[28:03] the internet connection makes it
[28:04] possible that we can have a short
[28:06] attunement just a few minutes and then I
[28:09] would love to respond to there are many
[28:11] questions it's you wrote that came in
[28:14] and maybe we can respond to some more
[28:17] specific questions that are up in the
[28:19] field right now so to start with if if
[28:25] in uncertain times when I get more
[28:27] stressed when I get more afraid what can
[28:30] I do
[28:32] let's remember that our breath everyone
[28:38] online right now is breathing and
[28:42] everybody online right now is praising
[28:45] breathing from the first few minutes
[28:48] after our birth
[28:50] and our breath went with us through the
[28:56] most difficult and the most beautiful
[28:58] moments of our life our breath is deeply
[29:03] wired on every level of our development
[29:10] when I was five months old when I was 2
[29:13] years old when I was 17 when I was 35
[29:16] and today I'm still breathing every one
[29:20] of us does so the breath connecting to
[29:24] the breath activates like a tube all the
[29:30] breaths that we have ever taken so when
[29:36] I when I connect to my breath I connect
[29:39] to kind of a resourcing system in my
[29:41] nervous system it's it tremendously
[29:43] important for me to regulate myself so
[29:46] when I feel more stressed or more scared
[29:49] and I'd say okay consciously I connect
[29:52] to my breath and I slow down the
[29:56] exhalation of my like my exhaling I slow
[30:02] it down and let's do this for a moment
[30:04] so I slow down the way I exhale and I
[30:13] follow my exhalation into my body and I
[30:25] take another breath and I follow my
[30:26] exhalation even deeper into the body and
[30:30] then I become aware of sitting my body
[30:38] posture the movement of my breath in my
[30:42] body then sitting
[30:50] and I can enjoy the simplicity of
[30:54] ceiling breathing and I connect to the
[31:08] more live parts of my body so for sure
[31:16] areas in my body that a more life open
[31:23] where I can feel my body better many
[31:30] people either the hands or the feet or
[31:35] belly the chest and look where do I feel
[31:42] streaming sensations where do I feel
[31:57] aliveness vitality strong body presence
[32:05] and I stay there for a few moments
[32:08] because it's easy to come back to a very
[32:11] activated mind and I'm scared I might
[32:14] think much more and I need to stay for
[32:18] some moments in the body take another
[32:21] breath take another breath and to feel
[32:29] that my body is a cup my body is a
[32:34] vessel my body is the planet
[32:42] my body is nature soil carbon minerals
[32:49] metals
[32:51] it's the substance of the planet through
[32:58] my body I can ground myself and feeling
[33:00] nature
[33:18] and then once I have a good sense of my
[33:22] body maybe they're open parts maybe I
[33:26] feel stress in other parts and I can
[33:29] co-presence them I walk comes to us yes
[33:32] I'm stressed yes
[33:37] I'm open and I don't look for how it
[33:41] should be I look for what is presence
[33:52] helps me to digest my overwhelm and from
[34:05] that I look into my emotional field and
[34:08] see what's what is my current emotional
[34:12] state am I scared
[34:15] am I happy am i sad and my numb which
[34:24] means that I don't feel any emotion and
[34:28] whatever I find there is no how I should
[34:32] be feeling whatever I just look how I
[34:38] feel and I confirm yes maybe I'm a bit
[34:47] scared maybe I'm a bit joyful yes I'm
[34:55] numb I'm overwhelmed and I'm numb it
[34:59] means that I'm overwhelmed that's an
[35:02] important state - and I just confirm
[35:11] this yes I
[35:16] and then I have a look at my mental
[35:21] capacities my mind racing is my mind
[35:24] calm spacious maybe my mind is blank
[35:32] kind of a bit Spacey which is different
[35:41] and I just get it look sometimes my mind
[35:44] is open inspired creative sometimes my
[35:49] mind is a bit tight busy with many
[35:52] thoughts that come back again and again
[35:56] and I just look just notice and again I
[36:14] just want to confirm what's there
[36:16] mindfulness means that my awareness is
[36:22] it tuned to my current perception and
[36:28] then for a moment I can look okay what's
[36:30] what's actually aware of my body
[36:35] emotions mind
[36:42] what's the awareness in me they can
[36:50] sense those perceptions inner
[36:53] perceptions consciously and I pay
[36:56] attention to the awareness itself
[37:21] and then maybe finally before we move
[37:25] over to some questions again to feel
[37:29] even if that's at the beginning more
[37:32] abstract we are thousands of people
[37:36] right now tuning in with the same
[37:39] meditation and to get a sense of a whole
[37:46] community being more and more
[37:52] synchronized individually presents and
[38:01] collectively connected and even if you
[38:05] don't see each other if you just set the
[38:10] intention to say okay we were all around
[38:14] the world and community of people with a
[38:17] similar intention right now and we can
[38:23] get a sense I can get a sense through my
[38:26] body my nervous system can feel as a
[38:33] collective presencing with other people
[38:41] that are also was probably in a similar
[38:45] situation facing uncertainty in their
[38:47] lives maybe her fear comes up come up
[38:56] be stressed in the current situation be
[39:00] worried about relatives or also be very
[39:07] present in this moment creative willing
[39:13] to give and support others that need it
[39:20] many of us will always have resources
[39:24] presents relation skills to offer and
[39:29] some of us needed and that helps us to
[39:35] stay in a place of response ability the
[39:39] ability to respond to the current moment
[39:42] in time to responsibility doesn't mean
[39:48] duty it's the ability to respond to the
[39:52] current moment current global moment
[39:55] individually and collectively and it's
[40:02] very different because reactivity and
[40:07] I'm reactive the past runs the show I do
[40:10] things that I did in the past I used
[40:13] patterns of my behavior or responding
[40:16] and relating that I've learned in the
[40:19] past and when I feel tight then that's
[40:24] what's coming up
[40:25] whereas responsiveness is a function of
[40:29] resonance it's a function of open
[40:32] relation the ability to respond to the
[40:37] current crisis and that's always adding
[40:42] energy into the system responding means
[40:46] giving responding means presencing
[40:50] feeling and then my body my emotions my
[40:57] mind they all work together as more as a
[41:02] unit and that's the foundation of human
[41:05] relation could you
[41:12] specifically what the health care
[41:13] providers on the frontlines are dealing
[41:16] with as we speak
[41:18] and both personal stress and the
[41:20] collective trauma that gets brought up
[41:22] to the surface when you are a health
[41:25] care worker trying to save the most
[41:27] sacred people's lives with shortages of
[41:31] supplies this also reminds me of what
[41:34] happened during Chernobyl when doctors
[41:37] didn't have personal protective
[41:38] equipment and still were on the
[41:41] frontlines I think that's why in in
[41:45] these times we see how we as a society
[41:48] have to be very supportive in as many
[41:54] ways as we can to support the health
[41:56] care system it's it's very important
[42:00] that we provide relational support that
[42:03] we provide support how we can decompress
[42:07] the stress because the more patients
[42:10] come in the more the pressure rises and
[42:12] as we said we are we're in for not the
[42:18] sprint and that's very important it's
[42:22] not a thing of two weeks that's why when
[42:25] we get burned out on the way it doesn't
[42:27] make much sense because this weakens our
[42:30] individual and collective immune system
[42:33] so we need to feed in kind of moment
[42:36] spaces supportive environments that
[42:40] where we can digest the stress that's
[42:42] coming up and as we especially in the
[42:46] health care system all of us but there
[42:48] especially because from a place of
[42:51] tightness it's very hard to support
[42:54] patients and clients that are that are
[42:57] anyway also very stressed and concerned
[42:59] about the health or in in fear exists
[43:02] intial fear and so healthcare
[43:04] professionals are not only busy with
[43:08] their own internal stress but they
[43:12] actually confront it all day long with
[43:16] external kind of crisis and so that's
[43:20] why if the fear or the stress inside
[43:24] rises
[43:25] the the kind of balancing that our
[43:30] nervous system can do to keep patients
[43:33] in a good kind of supportive relation as
[43:36] well is is getting reduced and I think
[43:40] we need to upgrade this so that we can
[43:43] that we can digest together
[43:47] what's that the whole stress that the
[43:50] system is in and I believe that the
[43:53] population since we are anyway in this
[43:56] kind of more or less lockdown in
[43:58] different places and many of the regular
[44:01] processes are not working we can
[44:04] actually support in every creative way
[44:07] possible that is acceptable by the
[44:09] healthcare system that to to be of
[44:14] support and I think there are many small
[44:16] ways how we can do this big yeah so I
[44:21] think that that's that's a very
[44:24] important function otherwise like we
[44:26] burn the resources too fast and when we
[44:29] are in for a long run we need energy we
[44:32] need enough energy and and so working
[44:36] sustainably given the emergency
[44:40] situation sustainably is a very
[44:44] important but and there are many things
[44:45] of what I just what I mentioned today if
[44:49] we apply some of it regularly and we
[44:51] practice it together it's it's it's
[44:55] gonna be already a huge relief Sarah
[45:00] asks
[45:02] a key challenge for me is that I get
[45:04] lost in and overwhelmed by feeling what
[45:09] others feel can you please talk a bit
[45:13] about how to deal with the challenging
[45:15] the challenge of feeling overwhelmed
[45:16] when feeling others pain and struggle
[45:19] and a few people have mentioned how do
[45:22] they help others who don't have a
[45:25] meditation or spiritual practice right
[45:29] yeah that's what I meant before now we
[45:32] are all in the river and we are swimming
[45:34] that's very important now this skill is
[45:37] being tested you know it's it's one
[45:40] thing to sit in the seminar centre and
[45:42] or on retreats or somewhere close to the
[45:46] ocean and watch to be in the beach and
[45:48] the ocean but it's another thing to to
[45:53] apply this in practice and so that means
[45:58] that we will not be together only with
[46:02] people as we said that might be might
[46:04] even be used to through our Sangha and
[46:07] retreats but we we are actually exposed
[46:09] to a different reality and that's the
[46:12] practice test and it's very important
[46:14] that I believe language is very
[46:17] important so when I say oh I am stressed
[46:19] because I feel other people's feelings
[46:22] in a way yes that's true but I would
[46:26] reframe it and say when I went my own
[46:30] stress is in resonance with the stress
[46:34] in my environment I feel even more
[46:38] stressed because then I take my minds
[46:41] notion of that it's because of the other
[46:43] people
[46:44] because then I can go back to myself and
[46:47] say wow when people around me are
[46:49] stressed I feel my own stress more and I
[46:55] think it's that's a different way to
[46:57] frame it because then I know that I can
[47:01] take care of my inner stress so this
[47:04] means I come back to myself in the inner
[47:07] work we always say in doubt come back to
[47:09] yourself in doubt when something is not
[47:13] clear we need to make contact to us
[47:16] selves because that that's where the
[47:18] tree is rooted and we you know we might
[47:23] be all in different levels of
[47:25] sensitivity and the higher is our
[47:27] sensitivity the more rope it needs to be
[47:30] the tree which means that the tree when
[47:35] we when we ground ourselves with a
[47:38] breath exactly as we did it before when
[47:40] I feel more stressed even if I talk to
[47:42] somebody I can take a breath during the
[47:45] conversation and other breath ground
[47:48] myself in the body while and listen to
[47:50] somebody and see well I get stressed my
[47:53] energy goes more up how can i regulate
[47:55] myself and ground myself feel my feet
[47:58] take a breath and and feel yeah I am I'm
[48:03] getting moisturized because I listen to
[48:05] you and you also have a kind of an
[48:07] economic uncertainty and this reminds me
[48:10] of my own or my own health care concern
[48:13] and so that we that we stay in this
[48:16] constant practice of regulation as far
[48:19] as it's possible is is very important
[48:21] but I think the reframing is important
[48:24] because and this is not just for the for
[48:27] you person to task but in general for us
[48:30] because we might sit because of the
[48:32] collective situation I feel more fear
[48:35] and in a way that's true but often we
[48:39] frame it looks looks it in it's kind of
[48:42] there's very little room because of
[48:45] course there will be a lot of collective
[48:46] fear but it shows me first of all my own
[48:50] fears and I can I can work on my own
[48:53] fears to ground them and digest them and
[48:57] not wanting to disconnect from my fear
[49:00] even more because the fear is anyway
[49:04] often a past emotions that are stored in
[49:07] us this is often related to trauma or
[49:11] attachment processes that were stressful
[49:13] and when they get triggered now and you
[49:16] want to disconnect from that fear even
[49:19] more then we will just feel more
[49:22] stressed we can do this over some time
[49:24] but as I said we are in for long around
[49:29] I can't do that too long because then I
[49:31] will feel more and more tight
[49:33] more and more stressed and I will
[49:35] actually be less and less connected to
[49:37] the best part of my brain the best part
[49:41] of my nervous system the best parts of
[49:43] my thinking my my relating so portion by
[49:48] portion we want to digest the pasture it
[49:51] comes up in humanity right now in order
[49:54] to to ground ourselves and that's I
[49:59] think what allows us to use the most
[50:02] like the latest parts of evolution the
[50:08] best and so that helps us to really find
[50:12] great solutions in the time being Thomas
[50:17] a few people seem to want to you know
[50:20] have an intention maybe a prayer a
[50:26] couple of people ed says Thomas first
[50:32] if something happens to me I love you
[50:34] and appreciate all your teachings
[50:37] through the years as you know I'm an
[50:40] emergency physician in the u.s. do you
[50:42] have practical advice how to group
[50:45] presents with ER team we are bracing for
[50:48] the impact which has not come but we're
[50:51] running low on critical medical supplies
[50:52] already especially personnel and
[50:54] protective equipment Rosa says there are
[50:58] thousands maybe millions that are losing
[51:00] their jobs in Mexico
[51:01] can we intention something for them
[51:04] during this period
[51:07] yeah what what like one intention is
[51:11] that we have to let go of how the world
[51:14] was yesterday that world is gone and
[51:19] it's very important I mean for many of
[51:21] us many things are happening now rapidly
[51:24] and many things we had don't exist
[51:28] anymore the world the world changed in
[51:31] the blink of an eye
[51:33] is kind of we're in a different world
[51:35] setup and it's not that many things
[51:37] might not come back again but we don't
[51:40] know that because we don't know where
[51:41] it's going so how to release ourselves
[51:44] from what we knew and to be really
[51:48] present it was now be a swimming if I
[51:51] look back all the time actually where
[51:53] did I why did I jump into this River who
[51:55] pushed me into the river why is all of
[51:58] this happening and this is not very
[52:00] helpful because I might bump into rocks
[52:03] in the river that because I have to swim
[52:06] now and it's very important so as much
[52:09] as we can the things that that are that
[52:12] that are happening they are happening
[52:14] they are kind of a collective force and
[52:18] that's why for us it's very important to
[52:21] look forward and say okay every day
[52:24] there are news every day other things
[52:26] are happening that we can't really
[52:28] control and if if that's the case then
[52:31] it's just okay we all need to align our
[52:34] spiritual capacity and reduce like our
[52:39] our need for solutions which means that
[52:45] we look okay what is the next step that
[52:48] we can do that is doable because
[52:51] sometimes when I look too far ahead I
[52:53] feel paralyzed because I don't know and
[52:56] so in order to reduce that paralysis I
[52:59] take I say okay what's the next step
[53:01] that shows up in front of me and I think
[53:04] for the forever for your question for
[53:08] the health care system I think even if
[53:11] it looks like because trauma always
[53:15] comes with the feeling the head don't
[53:18] have enough time and
[53:19] not enough space there's too much but
[53:24] too much is a symptom of individual and
[53:27] collective traumatization and we see its
[53:30] reawakening
[53:31] in our culture the collective trauma
[53:34] field is speaking all the time and it's
[53:37] clouding our kind of decision-making
[53:40] processes and it's clouding our clarity
[53:43] so I think one intention is to really
[53:46] look forward to make the steps that are
[53:48] possible not the ones that we can't see
[53:51] because they will be just stressful and
[53:53] the other one is in the healthcare field
[53:55] even if it looks like there is not
[53:58] enough time for some personal regulation
[54:03] and some team regulation as far as it's
[54:08] possible when we insert it and it
[54:10] doesn't need to be linked they don't
[54:12] have to be long practices we don't need
[54:14] to invest a long time but we have to
[54:18] invest some time into the sustainability
[54:22] that we can that we create group
[54:25] coherence and group coherence can can
[54:28] just be a moment where we come together
[54:30] in it in the morning meeting and and we
[54:35] have a moment where be attuned to
[54:38] ourselves attuned to each other and feel
[54:41] ourselves as a team as a group and that
[54:44] adds intelligence that adds intelligence
[54:48] to the system even if at the beginning
[54:50] our rational mind might be very
[54:53] skeptical and say oh why it's a waste of
[54:55] time we don't have the time we need to
[54:57] do other things and I think that's the
[55:02] answer of of the trauma function in our
[55:05] society because if we add this time we
[55:09] have a higher coherence and we are
[55:11] actually more effective together as a
[55:13] team and I think that's on the long run
[55:16] and I think we're in for a longer run
[55:18] the more sustainable the more
[55:21] sustainable part yeah first of all we
[55:25] see also like an how many people tuned
[55:28] in that there is a real need for coming
[55:31] together and and I'm sure we will do
[55:34] kind of more of it also in our community
[55:37] and as it happens also in other
[55:39] communities and yeah I believe that when
[55:44] you know in this this times love needs
[55:46] to run the show and and I think very
[55:50] important when it feels cares it's time
[55:53] to give and so when when that function
[55:56] is I said before like India when trauma
[55:59] gets activated often it feels like
[56:02] there's not enough time and there is not
[56:05] enough space and I might feel that I
[56:08] become more and more detached and so to
[56:11] come back to a space of vulnerability so
[56:16] that I can feel myself I believe it's
[56:19] very important even if that sounds at
[56:21] the beginning very simple when it's too
[56:23] simple like when why like it sounds so
[56:27] simple yeah it's simple but it's
[56:29] actually like a constant in the work
[56:32] that we need to do or at least some of
[56:34] us need to do in order to to stay stay
[56:38] in that place of responsiveness because
[56:42] responsibilities like the ability to
[56:45] respond is I think what we need now the
[56:48] most because that comes of a deep place
[56:50] of intelligence the ability to respond